Some people are not aware of the effect their behaviour has on others, positively or negatively. If they are to do more of the positive and less of the negative, they need to know how they are seen by others. They might stop doing the positive or keep doing the negative unless someone holds up a mirror to them. Feedback is the mirror. It may simply be telling them the effect they are having on you. It may simply be telling them what you like and don’t like. There is no guarantee that they will change if you speak out. There is a chance. There is a guarantee that they won’t change if you stay silent. Start with telling people the positive effect their behaviour has on you …today.
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